Attention Criticism x5

Top 5 reasons to DUMP social media

I’ve had more than a few insightful moments since I flew the coop and left social media behind. It is really interesting to consider how blinded I was up until the last month.

1. My family almost never spends any time talking without a cell phone in the hand. — this needs to change by “mandate” :-)
2. We have adopted a standard of communication which features criticism and comparison. — I plan to actively work to change this face to face over the holidays.
3. I have focused primarily on consuming and amplifying ideas and thought even when I provide my own spin and contexts. — Now that I’m free, I focus on ideas that are mine and more directly relevant to my local friends family and community.
4. My mind tells me that people that I barely know and have never met are are critically important to my life. This is blatantly false. — immediate family must be immediate and top priority always. FYI. I define immediate family broadly.
5. I feel the need to justify and publicize too many decisions, experiences, ideas. My choices are my choices and others opinions of them are not actually important in most if not all cases. — my life choices allow for yours. If yours don’t allow for mine then too bad so sad. Yeet.